Sunday, August 8, 2010

Ernie Draw November 2010

And you'll be a Man, my son. Bergman syndrome




A recent study observed that if a couple divorce, it affects those around him so he encourages other couples to divorce. What this study shows is that divorce is a social phenomenon, like
tattoos, piercing the

, fuck before marriage. Divorce can become, within a group of friends, a fad.
Good question. Come see the meadow next door.
Move over dear, I better look over your shoulder. Personally, I think this idea as old as history: the decisions of others, the lives of others, bring us constantly ourselves. It's cathartic, thanks to them, or because of them, it is challenging, it borders on the risk, it flirts with doubt. It is a bit of fags, living by proxy, or so low suggestible, or simply too human. This idea is beautifully illustrated in
Scenes from a Marriage
by this great monster,
Ingmar Bergman
, Who managed to show the time of a movie a couple's life. This is the first disturbing element of the film, launching a domino effect, what I call Syndrome

Bergman: a couple of friends of the protagonists splits = disturbance inside for everyone. For a window opens, another horizon is possible: it is engulfed all. Initially, the tranquility of a charming two-ritualized life. We are nerds

, we read, it is assumed not to fuck like pigs every night, because we are in complete comfort. Mental, physical, fitness is equated with our choices. We loved, we got married, pass me the salt and I come home late tonight. And good night darling.


But the announcement of the divorce of their respective best friends, she is disturbed. Even too. It sounds like his marriage collapses, and he does not understand. It's hard to console really, as it does not get it legitimacy, logic, force its collapse. When friends we separate, we separate ourselves

a bit, we try not to sink to this wave of independence libertarian approach, but it's like French Revolution, the monarchies were around lest it contaminate the
Europe. Then they went to war. We do not want all the heads jump, and understandably so: he leaves her for a poor girl 20 years. I saw his profile on Facebook , it saddens me. We all want to believe that our friend is a man emotionally intelligent. Wrongly. I'm not talking about stereotypes here, but examples. I know a thousand. We all know a thousand.

We fled the old boat. We want to make the jet. Normal. And we firmly believe that this is the best decision, since it was taken, so we influence others. We want to open their eyes. They want their property. Really.
You do not have to make you shit your whole life with the same problem. The same guy. You deserve better. You get tired. is not the end of the world. It feels good.

If it goes over you, to stop the charges.

No kidding, but we're not at the casino there.
And frankly, the grass is always greener elsewhere, since it arrives with a fresh look. It's like a vacation: it gets off

all. It's a fresh start.




Instead, I want to say that this is only the beginning of an old, same old. We just want to forget a little chorus.






But, when we do well, we like nothing. Simple as that. Except I can not explain why the attenuation of a feeling is contagious. Limit
something girl:
'll buy on ebay

? I should be tested. You've had enough of your cad? Me too. I do not know the end. And I wonder how long this will remain the same arena. Ooh , I'm old, limit the right, but anyway: until when, treading new lands? I'm lucky, or heaviness, to be part of these girls, if there are many, who knows, that does not trippent on the beginnings of a relationship. The beginnings are shitting me, everything that goes wrong in depth things

bored. So silly flirtations when you bite his tongue rather than barking his opinion, the vagueness of love in which everyone indulges

to the premise of a story, very little for me. But obviously I've already crossed so, for nothing, for another, to make me a smoothie fresh grass, because my panties wet over for an unknown idiot.

But it does stop, this ride? Never? I know some couples who found themselves. Who are amazing they are so beautiful together. Which are references for us, at least for me, finally, for those couples who live shaky and far from being purely cinematic. For example, my brother made this clip:









Gush
- Let's

Burn Again
Lots of couples hugging and everyone roll their shovels was the only direction for the extras I was appearing on the filming that day . With my guy. It was very cool, we drank beer, ate tomatoes and chips. It was wheeled excavators. A little embarrassed. We did as we could, but a little too much, we tried to be nice but we'll never know what gives on glossy paper. We have not been selected for installation. To believe that we are not photogenic movie-romantic-. It is simply I think modest. Brief. It Hits was arriving there. We were surrounded by couples who do it very well: to search the mouth thoroughly. Touching everywhere. Couples uninhibited about what they are. Aware

.
references. Couples hyper cool.



Couples who seem strong.



Couples beautiful.




And when the rumors of a separation near flanchent when friends are reluctant, to tremble We fuck the chips, you get to dinner we cut the small torque at assembly and debate. To try to understand. View

interests, limits, and perhaps despite ourselves we dream, the fantasy is there, we do not necessarily want but still, such a departure is a golden opportunity: the pure Hart to Hart. It starts the dishwasher, you go into the lounge mater film.
And it remains unanswered: who's next?







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